The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to oaklid's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenainflexibleselfish boastful overdramatic | Blind Spotaloofglum insecure lethargic withdrawn hostile unhappy cynical brash childish chaotic impatient loud vacuous panicky insensitive self-satisfied passive predictable callous inattentive |
| Not Known to Others | Façadeunreliablecold | Unknownincompetent intolerant timid cowardly violent stupid simple irresponsible vulgar unhelpful needy unimaginative inane cruel ignorant irrational distant blasé imperceptive weak embarrassed unethical smug rash dispassionate dull foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
55% of people agree that oaklid is inflexible
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (55%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (11%) glum (11%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (22%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (11%) withdrawn (22%) hostile (22%) selfish (44%) unhappy (22%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (44%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (11%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (11%) boastful (11%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (11%) impatient (44%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (11%) vacuous (11%) panicky (11%) unethical (0%) insensitive (22%) self-satisfied (11%) passive (11%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (22%) callous (11%) inattentive (11%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
gomichild thinks: insecure, inflexible, overdramatic, cynical, callous.
T thinks: withdrawn, inflexible, impatient, overdramatic, cynical.
Your Little Sister *ducks* thinks: hostile, loud, unhappy, brash, cynical.
kris A thinks: impatient, aloof, unhappy, cynical, selfish.
JoC thinks: insecure, impatient, childish, chaotic, overdramatic.
Raven6450 thinks: predictable, panicky, lethargic, selfish, inflexible.
franc thinks: inflexible, glum, self-satisfied, insensitive, passive.
an older me thinks: inflexible, hostile, selfish, insensitive, withdrawn.
54 year old me thinks: selfish, inattentive, impatient, boastful, vacuous, predictable.
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