oshititslingling's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

violent
needy
loud
vacuous
self-satisfied
humourless

Blind Spot

inflexible
timid
cowardly
aloof
glum
stupid
simple
insecure
irresponsible
vulgar
lethargic
withdrawn
selfish
unhappy
unhelpful
cynical
unimaginative
inane
brash
cruel
irrational
distant
childish
blasé
imperceptive
chaotic
impatient
weak
embarrassed
panicky
unethical
insensitive
passive
smug
rash
dispassionate
overdramatic
dull
predictable
callous
unreliable
cold
foolish
Not Known to Others

Façade

Unknown

incompetent intolerant hostile ignorant boastful inattentive

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (2%) timid (13%) cowardly (2%) violent (10%) aloof (26%) glum (15%) stupid (2%) simple (10%) insecure (30%) irresponsible (2%) vulgar (28%) lethargic (6%) withdrawn (34%) hostile (0%) selfish (4%) unhappy (19%) unhelpful (6%) cynical (17%) needy (15%) unimaginative (8%) inane (4%) brash (4%) cruel (2%) ignorant (0%) irrational (2%) distant (17%) childish (32%) boastful (0%) blasé (15%) imperceptive (4%) chaotic (41%) impatient (4%) weak (2%) embarrassed (13%) loud (8%) vacuous (8%) panicky (6%) unethical (2%) insensitive (4%) self-satisfied (13%) passive (17%) smug (8%) rash (6%) dispassionate (26%) overdramatic (4%) dull (4%) predictable (10%) callous (2%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (4%) cold (4%) foolish (4%) humourless (10%)

Description Breakdown (46 people)

Drac thinks: childish, chaotic, withdrawn, passive, dispassionate.
ag thinks: insensitive, distant, unhelpful, passive, irresponsible, aloof.
Nai. thinks: withdrawn, childish, passive, dispassionate, aloof.
person thinks: unhappy, chaotic, childish, impatient, insecure.
ax thinks: aloof, childish, chaotic, passive, self-satisfied.
SC, i still ly tho thinks: childish, chaotic, aloof, withdrawn, vulgar.
me same tru thinks: violent, needy, loud, vacuous, humourless, self-satisfied.
me three thanks thinks: violent, needy, loud, vacuous, humourless, self-satisfied.
a thinks: violent, needy, loud, vacuous, humourless, self-satisfied.
s thinks: lethargic, chaotic, loud, blasé, violent, vulgar.
Aurashad thinks: insecure, dispassionate, unhappy, withdrawn, timid, passive.
bogcreature1990 thinks: dispassionate, overdramatic, lethargic, withdrawn, glum, needy.
pho thinks: unimaginative, vulgar, dispassionate, vacuous, dull, distant.
Marry Me thinks: withdrawn, aloof, predictable, self-satisfied, unimaginative.
you dont need to know thinks: aloof, unhelpful, simple, humourless, unreliable.
roasted thinks: vulgar, cynical, dispassionate, simple, unhelpful, smug.
anon thinks: chaotic, distant, unhappy, predictable, vulgar.
Azratosh thinks: imperceptive, dispassionate, chaotic, withdrawn, simple, dull.
Saetiah thinks: insecure, blasé, embarrassed, passive, cold, timid.
did****thatcoming thinks: childish, blasé, impatient, selfish, unreliable, insensitive.
Bill Clinton thinks: unhappy, dispassionate, glum, humourless, withdrawn.
Winnie thinks: aloof, withdrawn, passive, dispassionate, unimaginative.
rita thinks: blasé, aloof, selfish, smug, predictable.
XailBobSquarePanties thinks: weak, insecure, distant, embarrassed, smug, simple.
anon thinks: insecure, withdrawn, inane, vulgar, chaotic.
A+ thinks: callous, rash, chaotic, childish, vulgar.
Naolys (still lov u) thinks: dispassionate, unhappy, blasé, chaotic, distant.
kalle thinks: chaotic, childish, insecure, embarrassed, vulgar.
somebodyoncetoldme thinks: brash, cruel, childish, chaotic, rash.
gaygay thinks: vulgar, childish, chaotic, smug, panicky.
Light thinks: insecure, needy, panicky, childish, rash.
Mochi thinks: passive, childish, chaotic, cold, aloof, withdrawn.
M. thinks: aloof, withdrawn, cynical, unethical, self-satisfied.
Mo (I hate being negative) thinks: timid, childish, vulgar, cynical, imperceptive, foolish.
Eric (this was really hard) thinks: vulgar, unhappy, childish, chaotic, predictable.
Krayfish thinks: insecure, embarrassed, glum, unhappy, distant, chaotic.
Saturnal thinks: vulgar, glum, aloof, insecure, lethargic, cynical.
Jazzy thinks: insecure, cynical, irrational, embarrassed, panicky.
Lavvy thinks: withdrawn, cynical, brash, glum, distant, aloof.
Tigerfalcon8 thinks: unimaginative, insecure, needy, dispassionate, overdramatic, timid.
V. thinks: timid, withdrawn, insecure, unhappy, chaotic.
Merced thinks: inflexible, withdrawn, distant, blasé, predictable, dispassionate.
Tactical Turtleneck thinks: insecure, unhappy, timid, withdrawn, glum.
Lord Lavender thinks: violent, foolish, stupid, simple, cowardly, inane.
itsamelingio thinks: vulgar, cynical, childish, chaotic, needy, embarrassed.
Naonao thinks: cynical, chaotic, blasé, insecure, glum.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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