pinchehuero's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to pinchehuero's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena insecure insensitive inattentive	Blind Spot aloof irresponsible selfish unhappy cynical distant chaotic impatient overdramatic unreliable foolish
Not Known to Others	Façade intolerant smug dull	Unknown incompetent inflexible timid cowardly violent glum stupid simple vulgar lethargic withdrawn hostile unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful blasé imperceptive weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical self-satisfied passive rash dispassionate predictable callous cold humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (50%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (25%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (50%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (50%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (25%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (25%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (25%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (50%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (50%) cold (0%) foolish (25%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

robert thinks: aloof, overdramatic, chaotic, insecure, cynical.
butwhatdoi know thinks: unhappy, selfish, impatient, overdramatic, foolish.
hobgadling thinks: irresponsible, distant, insensitive, unreliable, selfish.
lala thinks: aloof, insecure, inattentive, unreliable, cynical.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> insecure, insensitive, inattentive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> aloof, irresponsible, selfish, unhappy, cynical, distant, chaotic, impatient, overdramatic, unreliable, foolish</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> intolerant, smug, dull</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, timid, cowardly, violent, glum, stupid, simple, vulgar, lethargic, withdrawn, hostile, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, weak, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, self-satisfied, passive, rash, dispassionate, predictable, callous, cold, humourless</td></tr></table> <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (50%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (25%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (50%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (50%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (25%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (25%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (25%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (50%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (50%) cold (0%) foolish (25%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 11.6.2026, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=pinchehuero">view pinchehuero's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.