raehan's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to raehan's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena intolerant insecure self-satisfied	Blind Spot inflexible timid simple hostile unhappy needy childish impatient weak loud panicky passive overdramatic dull humourless
Not Known to Others	Façade violent embarrassed cold	Unknown incompetent cowardly aloof glum stupid irresponsible vulgar lethargic withdrawn selfish unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational distant boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic vacuous unethical insensitive smug rash dispassionate predictable callous inattentive unreliable foolish
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people think that raehan is childish

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (25%) inflexible (25%) timid (50%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (25%) insecure (25%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (25%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (75%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (25%) weak (25%) embarrassed (0%) loud (25%) vacuous (0%) panicky (50%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (25%) passive (25%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (25%) dull (25%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (25%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

.... thinks: humourless, panicky, passive, self-satisfied, inflexible, dull.
Izzati thinks: unhappy, childish, weak, simple, needy.
fahnaZ thinks: timid, intolerant, childish, overdramatic, loud, hostile.
Chigau thinks: timid, childish, impatient, panicky, insecure.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> intolerant, insecure, self-satisfied</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> inflexible, timid, simple, hostile, unhappy, needy, childish, impatient, weak, loud, panicky, passive, overdramatic, dull, humourless</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> violent, embarrassed, cold</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, cowardly, aloof, glum, stupid, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, withdrawn, selfish, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, distant, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, smug, rash, dispassionate, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, foolish</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people think that raehan is childish <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (25%) inflexible (25%) timid (50%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (25%) insecure (25%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (25%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (75%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (25%) weak (25%) embarrassed (0%) loud (25%) vacuous (0%) panicky (50%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (25%) passive (25%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (25%) dull (25%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (25%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 6.4.2025, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=raehan">view raehan's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.