rainingtulips's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

irresponsible
vulgar
selfish
impatient

Blind Spot

inflexible
violent
aloof
glum
insecure
withdrawn
hostile
cynical
inane
brash
irrational
distant
childish
blasé
chaotic
loud
self-satisfied
smug
dispassionate
callous
Not Known to Others

Façade

intolerant
lethargic

Unknown

incompetent timid cowardly stupid simple unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative cruel ignorant boastful imperceptive weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical insensitive passive rash overdramatic dull predictable inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

57% of people agree that rainingtulips is vulgar
57% of people think that rainingtulips is cynical

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (14%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (14%) aloof (28%) glum (14%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (28%) irresponsible (14%) vulgar (57%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (28%) hostile (14%) selfish (14%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (57%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (14%) brash (14%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (14%) distant (14%) childish (14%) boastful (0%) blasé (14%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (14%) impatient (42%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (14%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (14%) passive (0%) smug (42%) rash (0%) dispassionate (14%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (14%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (7 people)

Kevin thinks: insecure, vulgar, chaotic, callous, withdrawn.
burr86 thinks: impatient, loud, vulgar, withdrawn, smug.
Jeff thinks: brash, cynical, blasé, childish, distant.
biiru thinks: aloof, hostile, impatient, insecure, cynical, vulgar.
Nigel thinks: cynical, smug, glum, self-satisfied, dispassionate.
Sarah thinks: inflexible, cynical, smug, impatient, selfish.
bob thinks: violent, irresponsible, aloof, vulgar, inane, irrational.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.