rockgirlnikki's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena insecure needy impatient overdramatic	Blind Spot intolerant violent vulgar lethargic hostile cruel loud passive predictable
Not Known to Others	Façade withdrawn cold	Unknown incompetent inflexible timid cowardly aloof glum stupid simple irresponsible selfish unhappy unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash ignorant irrational distant childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate dull callous inattentive unreliable foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that rockgirlnikki is violent
66% of people think that rockgirlnikki is predictable

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (33%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (66%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (33%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (33%) lethargic (33%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (33%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (33%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (33%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (66%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

BaneofMafia thinks: vulgar, violent, cruel, hostile, lethargic.
Japter thinks: needy, overdramatic, loud, predictable, impatient.
snek thinks: violent, intolerant, insecure, passive, predictable.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> insecure, needy, impatient, overdramatic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> intolerant, violent, vulgar, lethargic, hostile, cruel, loud, passive, predictable</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> withdrawn, cold</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, timid, cowardly, aloof, glum, stupid, simple, irresponsible, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, inane, brash, ignorant, irrational, distant, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, callous, inattentive, unreliable, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that rockgirlnikki is violent 66% of people think that rockgirlnikki is predictable <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (33%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (66%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (33%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (33%) lethargic (33%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (33%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (33%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (33%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (66%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 9.6.2025, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=rockgirlnikki">view rockgirlnikki's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.