The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
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| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenaintolerantwithdrawn unhappy panicky | Blind Spotinflexibletimid violent aloof glum insecure selfish cynical needy cruel irrational distant childish boastful weak self-satisfied passive smug predictable cold |
| Not Known to Others | Façadecowardlydull | Unknownincompetent stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile unhelpful unimaginative inane brash ignorant blasé imperceptive chaotic impatient embarrassed loud vacuous unethical insensitive rash dispassionate overdramatic callous inattentive unreliable foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
58% of people think that ryan_is_alone is insecure
58% of people agree that ryan_is_alone is withdrawn
52% of people think that ryan_is_alone is distant
52% of people think that ryan_is_alone is passive
incompetent (0%) intolerant (5%) inflexible (5%) timid (35%) cowardly (0%) violent (11%) aloof (11%) glum (23%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (58%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (58%) hostile (0%) selfish (5%) unhappy (35%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (29%) needy (11%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (5%) ignorant (0%) irrational (5%) distant (52%) childish (5%) boastful (11%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (11%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (35%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (5%) passive (52%) smug (11%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (11%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (5%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
Linda thinks: insecure, distant, withdrawn, panicky, timid.
emily thinks: insecure, distant, predictable, passive, panicky.
Paul thinks: insecure, panicky, withdrawn, irrational, passive.
Ester thinks: insecure, unhappy, panicky, passive, aloof, timid.
gillie thinks: timid, insecure, passive, distant, withdrawn.
karmela thinks: passive, glum, withdrawn, unhappy, intolerant.
laurent thinks: distant, cynical, withdrawn, cruel, panicky.
velvet_kisses69 thinks: aloof, glum, distant, withdrawn, timid.
lisa thinks: cynical, withdrawn, insecure, passive, predictable.
crystal thinks: cynical, weak, , glum, needy, insecure.
hannah thinks: cynical, needy, insecure, passive, unhappy.
Brittani thinks: passive, distant, cynical, insecure, unhappy.
homa thinks: timid, panicky, smug, distant, withdrawn.
daniel thinks: violent, boastful, selfish, childish, distant.
tommmmmm thinks: distant, unhappy, withdrawn, insecure, glum.
MYSTERY thinks: smug, boastful, unhappy, withdrawn, self-satisfied, violent.
pbmm25 thinks: weak, passive, cold, timid, inflexible.
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