shenafo's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena loud insensitive overdramatic inattentive	Blind Spot glum insecure lethargic cynical needy boastful blasé impatient passive
Not Known to Others	Façade irresponsible selfish	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible timid cowardly violent aloof stupid simple vulgar withdrawn hostile unhappy unhelpful unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational distant childish imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate dull predictable callous unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

100% of people think that shenafo is insecure
75% of people agree that shenafo is overdramatic

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (25%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (100%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (25%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (25%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (25%) blasé (25%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (50%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (25%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (25%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (75%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (50%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

i'm so mean thinks: boastful, loud, overdramatic, impatient, insecure.
your cousin, so i'm allowed to thinks: insensitive, inattentive, insecure, overdramatic, impatient.
.. thinks: insecure, passive, needy, inattentive, glum.
anonymous thinks: insecure, blasé, overdramatic, cynical, lethargic.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> loud, insensitive, overdramatic, inattentive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> glum, insecure, lethargic, cynical, needy, boastful, blasé, impatient, passive</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> irresponsible, selfish</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, timid, cowardly, violent, aloof, stupid, simple, vulgar, withdrawn, hostile, unhappy, unhelpful, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, distant, childish, imperceptive, chaotic, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, panicky, unethical, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, predictable, callous, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>100% of people think that shenafo is insecure 75% of people agree that shenafo is overdramatic <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (25%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (100%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (25%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (25%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (25%) blasé (25%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (50%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (25%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (25%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (75%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (50%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 9.6.2026, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=shenafo">view shenafo's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.