spiffchica's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to spiffchica's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena insecure loud overdramatic	Blind Spot inflexible cowardly violent hostile cynical needy inane brash childish chaotic weak panicky dull predictable inattentive
Not Known to Others	Façade selfish impatient passive	Unknown incompetent intolerant timid aloof glum stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic withdrawn unhappy unhelpful unimaginative cruel ignorant irrational distant boastful blasé imperceptive embarrassed vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate callous unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (25%) timid (0%) cowardly (25%) violent (25%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (25%) unimaginative (0%) inane (25%) brash (25%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (50%) impatient (0%) weak (25%) embarrassed (0%) loud (50%) vacuous (0%) panicky (50%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (25%) dull (25%) predictable (25%) callous (0%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

Juanita thinks: inattentive, chaotic, inflexible, inane, panicky, brash.
clint thinks: insecure, panicky, violent, hostile, loud.
? thinks: insecure, needy, dull, predictable, weak, cowardly.
Elyse thinks: cynical, childish, chaotic, loud, overdramatic.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> insecure, loud, overdramatic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> inflexible, cowardly, violent, hostile, cynical, needy, inane, brash, childish, chaotic, weak, panicky, dull, predictable, inattentive</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> selfish, impatient, passive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, timid, aloof, glum, stupid, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, withdrawn, unhappy, unhelpful, unimaginative, cruel, ignorant, irrational, distant, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, embarrassed, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dispassionate, callous, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (25%) timid (0%) cowardly (25%) violent (25%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (25%) unimaginative (0%) inane (25%) brash (25%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (50%) impatient (0%) weak (25%) embarrassed (0%) loud (50%) vacuous (0%) panicky (50%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (25%) dull (25%) predictable (25%) callous (0%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 9.6.2026, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=spiffchica">view spiffchica's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.