The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to stillbourne's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenaviolentaloof withdrawn needy panicky passive | Blind Spotgluminsecure unhappy distant overdramatic inattentive cold |
Not Known to Others | Façade | Unknownincompetent intolerant inflexible timid cowardly stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile selfish unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic impatient weak embarrassed loud vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate dull predictable callous unreliable foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
75% of people agree that stillbourne is aloof
75% of people think that stillbourne is distant
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (25%) aloof (75%) glum (25%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (50%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (50%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (75%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (50%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (25%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (0%) cold (25%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
Kutera thinks: needy, passive, aloof, inattentive, distant.
Lordless thinks: overdramatic, aloof, distant, needy, violent, passive.
Spooks thinks: insecure, panicky, unhappy, glum, withdrawn.
Anonymous thinks: distant, cold, aloof, insecure, withdrawn.
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