The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to the cynical romantic's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenainsecurewithdrawn cynical passive overdramatic | Blind Spotincompetentintolerant violent aloof stupid hostile selfish needy unimaginative irrational distant boastful imperceptive embarrassed loud vacuous insensitive self-satisfied dispassionate dull callous |
Not Known to Others | Façadesmug | Unknowninflexible timid cowardly glum simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic unhappy unhelpful inane brash cruel ignorant childish blasé chaotic impatient weak panicky unethical rash predictable inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
incompetent (20%) intolerant (40%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (10%) aloof (10%) glum (0%) stupid (10%) simple (0%) insecure (40%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (50%) hostile (20%) selfish (10%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (50%) needy (40%) unimaginative (30%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (30%) distant (20%) childish (0%) boastful (10%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (20%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (10%) loud (20%) vacuous (10%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (10%) self-satisfied (10%) passive (20%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (10%) overdramatic (10%) dull (20%) predictable (0%) callous (20%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
Wraith thinks: cynical, irrational, callous, withdrawn, insecure.
Whooo thinks: cynical, withdrawn, insecure, embarrassed, needy.
op thinks: intolerant, needy, unimaginative, withdrawn, imperceptive, self-satisfied.
someone, biatchhhh =) thinks: aloof, cynical, distant, passive, withdrawn.
AHAHA...na i'm jus bein silly thinks: stupid, incompetent, violent, hostile, dull.
:OOOO thinks: irrational, unimaginative, needy, intolerant, loud, insecure.
lindsayliebt thinks: intolerant, cynical, irrational, needy, insensitive.
cake thinks: hostile, dispassionate, cynical, withdrawn, distant, passive.
anonymouse thinks: incompetent, intolerant, unimaginative, insecure, loud, dull.
anonymous thinks: selfish, boastful, callous, overdramatic, imperceptive, vacuous.
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