the_forgotton's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena inflexible aloof distant smug	Blind Spot lethargic selfish cynical unimaginative boastful blasé imperceptive insensitive dull cold
Not Known to Others	Façade withdrawn	Unknown incompetent intolerant timid cowardly violent glum stupid simple insecure irresponsible vulgar hostile unhappy unhelpful needy inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish chaotic impatient weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical self-satisfied passive rash dispassionate overdramatic predictable callous inattentive unreliable foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that the_forgotton is boastful
66% of people think that the_forgotton is insensitive
66% of people agree that the_forgotton is smug

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (33%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (33%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (0%) unimaginative (33%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (66%) blasé (33%) imperceptive (33%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (66%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (66%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (33%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

??? thinks: boastful, smug, dull, unimaginative, imperceptive, cynical.
KJ thinks: cold, insensitive, blasé, inflexible, distant.
Skipsida thinks: aloof, smug, lethargic, selfish, boastful, insensitive.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> inflexible, aloof, distant, smug</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> lethargic, selfish, cynical, unimaginative, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, insensitive, dull, cold</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> withdrawn</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, timid, cowardly, violent, glum, stupid, simple, insecure, irresponsible, vulgar, hostile, unhappy, unhelpful, needy, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, childish, chaotic, impatient, weak, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, self-satisfied, passive, rash, dispassionate, overdramatic, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that the_forgotton is boastful 66% of people think that the_forgotton is insensitive 66% of people agree that the_forgotton is smug <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (33%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (33%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (0%) unimaginative (33%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (66%) blasé (33%) imperceptive (33%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (66%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (66%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (33%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 17.6.2026, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=the_forgotton">view the_forgotton's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.