thewetuski's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena glum insecure withdrawn needy passive	Blind Spot aloof simple cynical distant boastful blasé smug overdramatic dull unreliable
Not Known to Others	Façade inattentive	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible timid cowardly violent stupid irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish imperceptive chaotic impatient weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied rash dispassionate predictable callous cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people agree that thewetuski is needy

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (33%) stupid (0%) simple (33%) insecure (33%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (33%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (66%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (33%) blasé (33%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (33%) smug (33%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (33%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (33%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

annon thinks: unreliable, overdramatic, distant, boastful, smug.
Marc thinks: simple, cynical, aloof, needy, blasé, glum.
anonymous thinks: insecure, passive, needy, withdrawn, dull.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> glum, insecure, withdrawn, needy, passive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> aloof, simple, cynical, distant, boastful, blasé, smug, overdramatic, dull, unreliable</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> inattentive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, timid, cowardly, violent, stupid, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, hostile, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, childish, imperceptive, chaotic, impatient, weak, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, rash, dispassionate, predictable, callous, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people agree that thewetuski is needy <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (33%) stupid (0%) simple (33%) insecure (33%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (33%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (66%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (33%) blasé (33%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (33%) smug (33%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (33%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (33%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 8.2.2025, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=thewetuski">view thewetuski's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.