tobito's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to tobito's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena insecure vulgar needy	Blind Spot timid aloof simple lethargic withdrawn inane irrational chaotic passive predictable
Not Known to Others	Façade childish panicky overdramatic	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible cowardly violent glum stupid irresponsible hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful cynical unimaginative brash cruel ignorant distant boastful blasé imperceptive impatient weak embarrassed loud vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate dull callous inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that tobito is timid
66% of people agree that tobito is insecure
66% of people agree that tobito is vulgar

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (66%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (33%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (66%) lethargic (33%) withdrawn (33%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (33%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (33%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (33%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (33%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

shirokawa thinks: lethargic, irrational, insecure, needy, vulgar, aloof.
chichiri thinks: simple, predictable, inane, timid, passive.
Kervs thinks: insecure, vulgar, chaotic, timid, withdrawn.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> insecure, vulgar, needy</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> timid, aloof, simple, lethargic, withdrawn, inane, irrational, chaotic, passive, predictable</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> childish, panicky, overdramatic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, cowardly, violent, glum, stupid, irresponsible, hostile, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, brash, cruel, ignorant, distant, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, impatient, weak, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that tobito is timid 66% of people agree that tobito is insecure 66% of people agree that tobito is vulgar <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (66%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (33%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (66%) lethargic (33%) withdrawn (33%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (33%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (33%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (33%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (33%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 26.2.2025, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=tobito">view tobito's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.