tomarctushu's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena aloof distant	Blind Spot intolerant cynical boastful unethical self-satisfied cold humourless
Not Known to Others	Façade insecure hostile ignorant predictable	Unknown incompetent inflexible timid cowardly violent glum stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic withdrawn selfish unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash cruel irrational childish blasé imperceptive chaotic impatient weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky insensitive passive smug rash dispassionate overdramatic dull callous inattentive unreliable foolish
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

100% of people think that tomarctushu is cold

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (50%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (50%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (50%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (50%) childish (0%) boastful (50%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (50%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (50%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (100%) foolish (0%) humourless (50%)

Description Breakdown (2 people)

Maiko thinks: cold, intolerant, aloof, cynical, boastful.
rev thinks: distant, self-satisfied, cold, humourless, unethical.

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<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> aloof, distant</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> intolerant, cynical, boastful, unethical, self-satisfied, cold, humourless</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> insecure, hostile, ignorant, predictable</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, timid, cowardly, violent, glum, stupid, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, withdrawn, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, irrational, childish, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, impatient, weak, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, panicky, insensitive, passive, smug, rash, dispassionate, overdramatic, dull, callous, inattentive, unreliable, foolish</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>100% of people think that tomarctushu is cold <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (50%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (50%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (50%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (50%) childish (0%) boastful (50%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (50%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (50%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (100%) foolish (0%) humourless (50%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 4.4.2025, using data from 2 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=tomarctushu">view tomarctushu's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.