tovlo's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

insecure
selfish
needy
irrational
impatient
passive

Blind Spot

timid
cowardly
violent
aloof
withdrawn
unhappy
cynical
cruel
distant
weak
embarrassed
loud
panicky
unethical
insensitive
rash
inattentive
cold
Not Known to Others

Façade

Unknown

incompetent intolerant inflexible glum stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile unhelpful unimaginative inane brash ignorant childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic vacuous self-satisfied smug dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable callous unreliable foolish humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

86% of people agree that tovlo is insecure
80% of people agree that tovlo is irrational

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (33%) cowardly (6%) violent (6%) aloof (20%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (86%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (26%) hostile (0%) selfish (46%) unhappy (13%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (6%) needy (46%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (26%) ignorant (0%) irrational (80%) distant (26%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (13%) weak (6%) embarrassed (26%) loud (6%) vacuous (0%) panicky (20%) unethical (6%) insensitive (6%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (20%) smug (0%) rash (6%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (6%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (15 people)

anonymous thinks: insecure, embarrassed, timid, inattentive, irrational, aloof.
anonymous thinks: distant, insecure, irrational, passive, withdrawn.
anonymous thinks: insecure, timid, panicky, withdrawn, rash, irrational.
blooming thinks: insecure, irrational, timid, panicky, withdrawn, embarrassed.
Anon Coward thinks: insecure, irrational, panicky, cynical, passive.
anon thinks: withdrawn, passive, unhappy, irrational, insensitive, aloof.
cowardly lion thinks: aloof, insecure, unhappy, distant, needy.
INFJ Anon Coward thinks: needy, insecure, timid, cowardly, weak, irrational.
birdy peep peep thinks: insecure, embarrassed, distant, impatient, selfish, needy.
anonymous thinks: insecure, irrational, selfish, cold, unethical, cruel.
anonymous thinks: distant, impatient, selfish, insecure, needy, irrational.
anonymous thinks: cruel, needy, insecure, irrational, selfish, cold.
anonymous thinks: selfish, cold, cruel, needy, insecure, irrational.
INFJ user thinks: cold, cruel, irrational, needy, selfish, timid.
Anon Ghost thinks: cold, selfish, loud, violent, insecure, embarrassed.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.