trixyy's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to trixyy's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena intolerant withdrawn cynical	Blind Spot violent simple selfish unhappy needy childish loud vacuous self-satisfied foolish
Not Known to Others	Façade insecure distant	Unknown incompetent inflexible timid cowardly aloof glum stupid irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile unhelpful unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic impatient weak embarrassed panicky unethical insensitive passive smug rash dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people agree that trixyy is intolerant
66% of people agree that trixyy is cynical
66% of people think that trixyy is loud

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (66%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (33%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (33%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (33%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (33%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (66%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (33%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (66%) vacuous (33%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (33%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (33%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

Killer D thinks: unhappy, simple, foolish, self-satisfied, loud.
- thinks: violent, intolerant, childish, loud, selfish, cynical.
joey thinks: needy, cynical, vacuous, intolerant, withdrawn.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> intolerant, withdrawn, cynical</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> violent, simple, selfish, unhappy, needy, childish, loud, vacuous, self-satisfied, foolish</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> insecure, distant</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, timid, cowardly, aloof, glum, stupid, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, hostile, unhelpful, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, impatient, weak, embarrassed, panicky, unethical, insensitive, passive, smug, rash, dispassionate, overdramatic, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people agree that trixyy is intolerant 66% of people agree that trixyy is cynical 66% of people think that trixyy is loud <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (66%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (33%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (33%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (33%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (33%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (66%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (33%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (66%) vacuous (33%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (33%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (33%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 27.4.2026, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=trixyy">view trixyy's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.