vincci.monique's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena cynical loud	Blind Spot intolerant violent aloof simple insecure unhappy inane childish boastful chaotic self-satisfied passive smug foolish
Not Known to Others	Façade incompetent stupid lethargic impatient	Unknown inflexible timid cowardly glum irresponsible vulgar withdrawn hostile selfish unhelpful needy unimaginative brash cruel ignorant irrational distant blasé imperceptive weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical insensitive rash dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people agree that vincci.monique is cynical

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (25%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (25%) aloof (25%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (50%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (75%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (25%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (50%) boastful (25%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (50%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (25%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (25%) passive (25%) smug (25%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (25%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

kunwari lang to thinks: simple, violent, cynical, childish, loud.
anonymous thinks: foolish, cynical, simple, insecure, chaotic, passive.
bluisher thinks: childish, chaotic, inane, unhappy, aloof.
sir thinks: insecure, intolerant, self-satisfied, cynical, smug, boastful.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> cynical, loud</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> intolerant, violent, aloof, simple, insecure, unhappy, inane, childish, boastful, chaotic, self-satisfied, passive, smug, foolish</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> incompetent, stupid, lethargic, impatient</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> inflexible, timid, cowardly, glum, irresponsible, vulgar, withdrawn, hostile, selfish, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, distant, blasé, imperceptive, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, rash, dispassionate, overdramatic, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people agree that vincci.monique is cynical <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (25%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (25%) aloof (25%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (50%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (75%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (25%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (50%) boastful (25%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (50%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (25%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (25%) passive (25%) smug (25%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (25%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 11.6.2026, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=vincci.monique">view vincci.monique's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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