wannabehousewife's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena overdramatic	Blind Spot simple insecure unhappy cynical childish imperceptive embarrassed rash unreliable
Not Known to Others	Façade intolerant lethargic hostile needy loud	Unknown incompetent inflexible timid cowardly violent aloof glum stupid irresponsible vulgar withdrawn selfish unhelpful unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational distant boastful blasé chaotic impatient weak vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied passive smug dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

100% of people agree that wannabehousewife is overdramatic

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (50%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (50%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (50%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (50%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (50%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (50%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (50%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (100%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (50%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (2 people)

Erin thinks: insecure, childish, overdramatic, rash, cynical, unhappy.
me thinks: simple, unreliable, overdramatic, imperceptive, embarrassed.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> overdramatic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> simple, insecure, unhappy, cynical, childish, imperceptive, embarrassed, rash, unreliable</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> intolerant, lethargic, hostile, needy, loud</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, timid, cowardly, violent, aloof, glum, stupid, irresponsible, vulgar, withdrawn, selfish, unhelpful, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, distant, boastful, blasé, chaotic, impatient, weak, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, passive, smug, dispassionate, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>100% of people agree that wannabehousewife is overdramatic <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (50%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (50%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (50%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (50%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (50%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (50%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (50%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (100%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (50%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 17.6.2026, using data from 2 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=wannabehousewife">view wannabehousewife's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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