weakness.gilin84's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena violent rash	Blind Spot intolerant timid simple vulgar impatient loud self-satisfied passive smug
Not Known to Others	Façade inane childish inattentive foolish	Unknown incompetent inflexible cowardly aloof glum stupid insecure irresponsible lethargic withdrawn hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful cynical needy unimaginative brash cruel ignorant irrational distant boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical insensitive dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable callous unreliable cold humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

100% of people agree that weakness.gilin84 is violent
66% of people think that weakness.gilin84 is vulgar
100% of people think that weakness.gilin84 is loud

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (33%) inflexible (0%) timid (33%) cowardly (0%) violent (100%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (33%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (66%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (100%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (33%) passive (33%) smug (33%) rash (33%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

audHavingDiarrhoea thinks: loud, violent, impatient, vulgar, intolerant.
ucanfindcandice thinks: violent, loud, simple, self-satisfied, passive.
polki thinks: rash, timid, smug, vulgar, loud, violent.

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<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> violent, rash</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> intolerant, timid, simple, vulgar, impatient, loud, self-satisfied, passive, smug</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> inane, childish, inattentive, foolish</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, cowardly, aloof, glum, stupid, insecure, irresponsible, lethargic, withdrawn, hostile, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, cynical, needy, unimaginative, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, distant, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, dispassionate, overdramatic, dull, predictable, callous, unreliable, cold, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>100% of people agree that weakness.gilin84 is violent 66% of people think that weakness.gilin84 is vulgar 100% of people think that weakness.gilin84 is loud <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (33%) inflexible (0%) timid (33%) cowardly (0%) violent (100%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (33%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (66%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (100%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (33%) passive (33%) smug (33%) rash (33%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 1.4.2025, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=weakness.gilin84">view weakness.gilin84's full data</a>. </div>

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