y2k_cinderalla's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena simple vulgar passive overdramatic	Blind Spot intolerant violent insecure unhappy chaotic impatient panicky self-satisfied predictable cold
Not Known to Others	Façade timid inattentive	Unknown incompetent inflexible cowardly aloof glum stupid irresponsible lethargic withdrawn hostile selfish unhelpful cynical needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational distant childish boastful blasé imperceptive weak embarrassed loud vacuous unethical insensitive smug rash dispassionate dull callous unreliable foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people think that y2k_cinderalla is predictable

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (25%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (25%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (50%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (50%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (25%) impatient (50%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (25%) passive (50%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (25%) dull (0%) predictable (75%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (25%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

zhangbuda thinks: predictable, panicky, impatient, insecure, intolerant, passive.
maggie; thinks: cold, predictable, impatient, vulgar, self-satisfied.
JiN thinks: overdramatic, violent, predictable, vulgar, simple.
chun thinks: passive, unhappy, simple, chaotic, insecure.

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<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> simple, vulgar, passive, overdramatic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> intolerant, violent, insecure, unhappy, chaotic, impatient, panicky, self-satisfied, predictable, cold</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> timid, inattentive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, cowardly, aloof, glum, stupid, irresponsible, lethargic, withdrawn, hostile, selfish, unhelpful, cynical, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, distant, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, weak, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, callous, unreliable, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people think that y2k_cinderalla is predictable <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (25%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (25%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (50%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (50%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (25%) impatient (50%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (25%) passive (50%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (25%) dull (0%) predictable (75%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (25%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 19.4.2025, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=y2k_cinderalla">view y2k_cinderalla's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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