~J~'s Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to ~J~'s.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena intolerant distant insensitive	Blind Spot violent aloof simple lethargic hostile unhappy cynical blasé chaotic impatient embarrassed loud panicky callous
Not Known to Others	Façade withdrawn rash inattentive	Unknown incompetent inflexible timid cowardly glum stupid insecure irresponsible vulgar selfish unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful imperceptive weak vacuous unethical self-satisfied passive smug dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people think that ~J~ is impatient

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (25%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (25%) aloof (25%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (25%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (25%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (50%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (50%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (25%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (25%) impatient (75%) weak (0%) embarrassed (25%) loud (25%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (25%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (50%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

cricket - all right dammit!! thinks: cynical, blasé, embarrassed, chaotic, impatient.
Larry thinks: intolerant, impatient, lethargic, callous, panicky, insensitive.
~S thinks: distant, impatient, simple, aloof, cynical.
Cap'n Viv thinks: violent, unhappy, distant, callous, hostile, loud.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> intolerant, distant, insensitive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> violent, aloof, simple, lethargic, hostile, unhappy, cynical, blasé, chaotic, impatient, embarrassed, loud, panicky, callous</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> withdrawn, rash, inattentive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, timid, cowardly, glum, stupid, insecure, irresponsible, vulgar, selfish, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, childish, boastful, imperceptive, weak, vacuous, unethical, self-satisfied, passive, smug, dispassionate, overdramatic, dull, predictable, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people think that ~J~ is impatient <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (25%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (25%) aloof (25%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (25%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (25%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (50%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (50%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (25%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (25%) impatient (75%) weak (0%) embarrassed (25%) loud (25%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (25%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (50%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 17.4.2025, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=~J~">view ~J~'s full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.